I am a 37 year old man whose wife is very sick. I am in sales and recently I lost a very imporatnt "bread and butter" account for reaons beyond my control. I am struggling to replace it as my income has gone way down. My wife and I have I exhausted our savings as I have worked as many  side jobs as I can find to make ends meet. We live in a rural area where there is not alot of work to begin with.

 My Wife cannot work as her conditions (she suffers from multiple health problems) continues to get worse. I am affraid we are going to lose our house which I don't have alot of equity in at this point. My credit is in bad shape as I have been using credit cards to pay bills.

My wife is applying for state disability but we are not hopeful that will come through immediately as I'm told most people get denied several times. I feel as though I have let my family down completely. I am exploring new career possibilities that are more lucrative than what I do (printer supplies). I don't want to lose my family. Can anybody help me?